Inspired by Ephesians 1:18...
And now may your hearts be flooded with light so you can see the hope the Father has given to you--to you, His holy people, who are His rich and glorious inheritance. And as you walk in the Spirit, may you understand the incredible greatness of God's power--the same power that raised Christ Jesus from the dead. Amen and amen!
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
Tuesday, April 7, 2015
The I in Leadership, Part 4
The last few posts have been about self leadership, the "I" if you will, that needs attention in order to lead optimally.
First we talked about the importance of self leadership, then the ways I'm learning to lead myself spiritually and personally. This time I'd like to talk about how I am leading myself professionally.
Just a reminder, I'm not sharing as a guru but as a learner. The longer I serve in a leadership role, the more convinced I am of the need to take care of and lead myself well. I fail more than I succeed. But I succeed more than I used to. And it is in that spirit that I'd like to tell you three things I'm finding especially helpful about leading myself professionally.
1) I read. There's an adage you may have heard: "Leaders are readers." The more I read, the better I lead. Or perhaps I should be more specific and say, the more I read the right stuff, the better I lead in the right way. Some of the reading I do is because it is what is being "talked about" in the arena of worship leaders. I do it to stay current with my colleagues. Some of the reading I do is because others have suggested it--especially others I respect and want to lead like. My pastor, for example. Or my mentors. And then some of what I read is because I think it will help me get better. I read for pleasure (usually fiction; I love Ted Dekker's novels), I read for development (usually about leadership), and I read for spiritual growth (usually the authors I want to learn from--men and women who are getting it done).
2) I listen. My job is to serve the people in my ministry, my church, and my community. So I ask questions and I listen. When I get differing viewpoints, I do my best to choose what will serve the most people in the best way. When I get consistent answers, even if it goes agains my opinion (not my conviction), I humble myself and serve from that information. I ask my pastor (aka my boss) for feedback. I have the heart of an artist, so this is risky. Chances are, he will say something that hurts a little. But 99 out of 100 times he is right. And if I listen well, and adjust, I will get better. It's worth the pain.
3) I watch. When I'm around people who do what I do--either they work in the church setting generally or in worship ministry specifically--I watch them. I learn from them. I watch what they do that is ineffective and try not to do that. I watch what they do well and try to do that. Sometimes this is very evident--like talking before a song. But more often it is subtle--like the way they talk to someone in the hallway between services, or the way they communicate with facial and body language. I watch the folks I serve on staff with. That's low hanging fruit because we're together most days. I watch others who serve in my community. And when I can, I get to another church and experience a service or a ministry. And I watch like a hawk.
So to get better at what I do professionally, to lead myself in that way, I read, listen and watch. I'm curious: what do you do that helps you keep getting better?
Wednesday, March 11, 2015
The I in Leadership, part 3
Welcome to the middle of a 4-part series about "self leadership" an area in which I'm hoping to grow this and every year: Spiritual Leadership, Personal Leadership, and Professional Leadership.
I'd like to share a little bit more of what I'm learning about leading myself personally.
First, you should know this is my weakest area of self-leadership. I'm writing out of weakness and failure, not success or strength.
Among my personal goals this year are to be more active, to lose 50 pounds, to love my wife and adult daughters better--given our specific circumstances, to gain control over my calendar, and to meet with at least a dozen people I'd like to learn from.
It's that last part I'd like to share with you, just in case it might serve your journey too.
I asked around, trying to identify worship pastors and pastors that are just a few years ahead of me and doing a great job (I'm nearly 50, so I was looking for anyone older than me but not retired.) I compiled a list from my own network and asked 2 or 3 colleagues that are strongly networked as well. The first two I've contacted are Rory Noland (formerly of Willow Creek, sought after author and speaker) and Mike Harland (head of Lifeway Worship).
I've offered to take them to lunch, ask questions, and listen. Their choice of location. I'm traveling to where they are, and I'm picking up the tab.
My three questions may be very different from questions you would ask. They are reflective of my own areas that I need to grow in and my stage of life:
1) How do you lead yourself well? (Especially time management, self-control, etc.)
2) How can I be a great husband in this season of life? (Entering empty nest)
3) What makes for a great worship pastor, and how can I take my next step?
How did I arrive at these questions?
Simple, really. I have identified limitations to my own personal development and then crafted questions that I hope will help me break through those barriers.
I do some of the "time management" gimmicks well. I tend to deal with tasks/paper only once, I block out time to do the things that are important to me, I prioritize based on importance more than urgency, etc. And in many areas of my life I exhibit healthy self-control. But not enough areas. And especially at the cross-roads of these two areas, I fail to lead myself well. In other words, if I could exhibit self-control when it comes to my time management, I would lead myself better personally.
My second question comes out of unique circumstances that are too complex to bore you with. Regardless, I think this is an essential question to ask at every transition in life--with no kids, or when kids aren't in school yet, or in school, or teens, or moving out, or entering retirement, etc. Our relationships change as our circumstances change. I want to know how to love my wife like Christ loves the church in THIS season of our marriage.
A huge part of my personal life, because of the nature of my job, is connected to my professional life. It's the nature of ministry. And I love that. But it does make my last question relevant to personal self-leadership as well as professional self-leadership. These folks I'm meeting with know this as well. And I want to learn from them.
Your questions are likely to be quite different from mine, and honestly, I'd love to see them! Why don't you leave a comment and share 2 or 3 questions you'd ask someone who is just a little farther down the path? Better yet, why don't you identify a handful of those folks right now and offer to buy their lunch? Not only will it help you lead yourself well, it will deeply encourage those you invite.
Next time--self-leadership professionally. I'm looking forward to it!
Friday, February 20, 2015
The I in Leadership, Part 2
Last time I shared three areas of "self leadership" in which I'm hoping to grow this and every year: Spiritual, Personal, and Professional.
I'd like to share a little bit more of what I'm learning about leading myself spiritually.
You may be familiar with the classic "spiritual disciplines" like prayer, scripture reading, confession, fasting, etc. I find them most helpfully discussed at length in Richard Foster's book "Celebration of Discipline." I have also learned a great deal from other authors, but as an overview, Foster's book is superb. He divides a dozen different disciplines into three general categories: inward, outward, and corporate.
The twelve he explores are tremendously inter-related, a reminder that everything we do in our spiritual journey affects the rest of our spiritual journey. This is true of fasting, for example. It's also true of sin.
The hardest thing for me to remember is that the practice of spiritual disciplines is primarily for these two purposes: "training in righteousness" and intimacy with our Father.
Training in righteousness is a telling phrase. No basketball player spends time in the weight room so they can be good with weights. They work out on the treadmill or do bicep curls so when they hit the court they can play basketball well. And win. The same is true in our faith. We spend time reading God's word not as an end, but a means to and end. We pray the same way. And submit. And confess. And worship. And meditate.
I want to ever-increasingly do the activities of my faith to increase my faith. I want to train for the battle and actually engage in the battle.
And win.
And win.
These things are essential for worship leaders.
In addition to training, we lead ourselves spiritually to increase intimacy with God. A trio of writers that have helped me with this are Ken Gire, John Eldridge, and Max Lucado. If you don't mind reading a Roman Catholic who excelled in this area, check out the writings of Thomas Merton. Amazing stuff.
I'm not sure there's a whole lot I can offer to specifically aid your journey toward intimacy with God. For me it's a matter of posture and attitude. When I read scripture, I place myself under its' authority. That's posture. As I pray, I come to God as His son, not His subject. That's attitude. Perhaps those will inspire better thoughts in your mind.
Back to the bigger picture as we wrap up: Jesus led Himself perfectly. He only did what the Father told Him to do. He was so intimate with His Father that He could say they were "one." And His training in righteousness was effective enough to see Him through the agony of the garden, the anguish of the cross, and to the emptiness of a tomb. He fought and won.
We can too.
Sunday, February 15, 2015
Worship Leaders: Leadership starts with ourselves
[A caveat - this post focuses on the human side of spiritual leadership. I don't mean in any way to diminish the spiritual forces at work.]
1 Peter 1:13 says, "prepare your minds for action."
Before we act, we prepare.
Before we lead others, we lead ourselves. There actually is an i in leadership.
Every significant failure I've experienced in leadership was preceded by a failure to lead myself well.
There are at least three ways I want to lead myself better:
1) Spiritually (especially through wise use of spiritual disciplines)
2) Personally (my physical body, my role as husband and father)
3) Professionally (as a pastoral-team member and as a worship leader)
I will expand on each of those in the posts that follow, but here's a quick touch on each.
SPIRITUAL SELF LEADERSHIP
While reading through the Bible this year (for the first time I'm following a chronological plan) I have to remind myself that I'm pursuing intimacy, not an accomplishment. When I pray for people, I remind myself that I'm doing this partly to foster relationships--both with my Father and with those for whom I pray. When I confess, I remember that I'm doing it to humble myself and pursue intimacy, not just to "model" the right behavior.
PERSONAL SELF LEADERSHIPAmong my goals for this year are:
--getting healthier physically
--becoming a better husband
--being a better father to my adult (or very nearly adult) daughters.
In order to reach those goals, I am pursuing the wisdom of men just a few years ahead of me. I've crafted 3 questions to ask them, hoping to lead myself well personally. More about that later.
PROFESSIONAL SELF LEADERSHIP I spend time every week trying to get better at my job. I listen for input and feedback. I read to learn. I write to clarify. I teach others to make sure I'm thinking rightly. I really try to get better every single week.
Still, every time I have failed to lead others well, I can point to the source as a failure to lead myself well in one of those three areas. Conversely, every time I have led others really well, I can attribute it to leading myself well.
And here is an amazing mystery of our faith: it is the grace of God that enables me to lead myself well, blessing that leadership. At the same time it's the grace of God that covers my failures to lead myself well, even using those failures to glorify Him and build His Kingdom.
How about you? Do you experience the joy and frustration of self-leadership and see the connection to your ability to lead others?
Saturday, January 31, 2015
A Letter to a Young Worship Leader (aka 'The Stakes Are Too High')
As I was writing the letter that follows--a long time back--I kept thinking, "I wish all of our worship leaders knew this." Then I thought... maybe it would help some other worship leaders to read this. So I removed all hints at who the letter originally went to so I could share it with you.
Maybe it would serve you to read it as if addressed to you. Or maybe you can adapt it and send it to folks in your worship ministry. As always, I'd love to read some comments about how it helps OR about how you might disagree or say something differently.
So here it is...a letter to a young person, a new believer, who had been invited to play in the worship band for a Sunday. They had responded that it didn't seem fair that they couldn't play if they had to miss "just one rehearsal."
I'm sorry you won't be able to play.
As far as missing "one rehearsal," we only get one rehearsal. I know you're still learning this whole God/church thing, so I hope you will benefit from this...
1) God deserves our best. Not "good enough." Not "we'll get through it." Not, "I won't mess up." He deserves our best. That only happens we we are all really well prepared.
2) The church deserves our best. People come into church (and sometimes you and I are those people) hurting, frustrated, hopeless, and in need of something good, powerful, beautiful, etc. When we craft our music well, we give those things to our church.
3) Those far from God deserve our best. As you know, if someone doesn't believe in the whole "God thing" or doesn't buy into the "church thing," they will be skeptical. It's normal. When we make GREAT music--well planned, well prepared, well rehearsed--both individually and together--we earn credibility with those far from God. Our excellence gives them a chance to hear the life changing news of the gospel.
So we only get one rehearsal to do all of that. One. Thursday night is all the time I have to help between 5 and 12 people feel fully prepared to give their best. For us in the Sanctuary, coming early on Sunday morning is a time to sound check, run-thru, and "remember what we did at rehearsal," as well as fix anything that just isn't working out.
That's why I, as the worship leader, require everyone to be at the "one rehearsal" we have. The stakes are too high. The honor we give God, the encouragement we give the church, and the hope we offer those far from God matter too much for me to "just get by" without rehearsal.
My friend, I don't mean any of that to be "coming down" on you. I just want you to know my heart. This is why I value what we do so much.
On a recent Sunday we had a "Night of Worship" with 12 songs in it. The rhythm section practiced 4 times for a total of more than 7 hours, and then--on top of that--we did the sound check/run through thing on Sunday afternoon before the service.
It was amazing.
We were well prepared. We were together musically, but also relationally and spiritually. That should happen every time a group of people lead worship together. That's what I'm after.
Hope that helps you understand. It helped me to remember, even as I wrote it out.
I'm really looking forward to the next time you get to play with us in the Sanctuary!
Grace. Peace.
Rod
"He will yet fill your mouth with laughter and your lips with shouts of joy." - Job 8.21
Maybe it would serve you to read it as if addressed to you. Or maybe you can adapt it and send it to folks in your worship ministry. As always, I'd love to read some comments about how it helps OR about how you might disagree or say something differently.
So here it is...a letter to a young person, a new believer, who had been invited to play in the worship band for a Sunday. They had responded that it didn't seem fair that they couldn't play if they had to miss "just one rehearsal."
I'm sorry you won't be able to play.
As far as missing "one rehearsal," we only get one rehearsal. I know you're still learning this whole God/church thing, so I hope you will benefit from this...
1) God deserves our best. Not "good enough." Not "we'll get through it." Not, "I won't mess up." He deserves our best. That only happens we we are all really well prepared.
2) The church deserves our best. People come into church (and sometimes you and I are those people) hurting, frustrated, hopeless, and in need of something good, powerful, beautiful, etc. When we craft our music well, we give those things to our church.
3) Those far from God deserve our best. As you know, if someone doesn't believe in the whole "God thing" or doesn't buy into the "church thing," they will be skeptical. It's normal. When we make GREAT music--well planned, well prepared, well rehearsed--both individually and together--we earn credibility with those far from God. Our excellence gives them a chance to hear the life changing news of the gospel.
So we only get one rehearsal to do all of that. One. Thursday night is all the time I have to help between 5 and 12 people feel fully prepared to give their best. For us in the Sanctuary, coming early on Sunday morning is a time to sound check, run-thru, and "remember what we did at rehearsal," as well as fix anything that just isn't working out.
That's why I, as the worship leader, require everyone to be at the "one rehearsal" we have. The stakes are too high. The honor we give God, the encouragement we give the church, and the hope we offer those far from God matter too much for me to "just get by" without rehearsal.
My friend, I don't mean any of that to be "coming down" on you. I just want you to know my heart. This is why I value what we do so much.
On a recent Sunday we had a "Night of Worship" with 12 songs in it. The rhythm section practiced 4 times for a total of more than 7 hours, and then--on top of that--we did the sound check/run through thing on Sunday afternoon before the service.
It was amazing.
We were well prepared. We were together musically, but also relationally and spiritually. That should happen every time a group of people lead worship together. That's what I'm after.
Hope that helps you understand. It helped me to remember, even as I wrote it out.
I'm really looking forward to the next time you get to play with us in the Sanctuary!
Grace. Peace.
Rod
"He will yet fill your mouth with laughter and your lips with shouts of joy." - Job 8.21
Saturday, January 10, 2015
Worship Music's Dirty Little Secret
There's one reason people don't sing in worship that trumps all others.
This dirty little secret won't seem so dirty to those outside the church. In fact, they don't care, which is one of the reasons I try not to talk about worship style too much. The perception of those still far from God is a part of what makes this secret a dirty one for those of us inside the church. We're talking about things that distract us from our mission--to share the great and glorious news of grace--but sometimes we talk about it in ways that actually endanger our ability to fulfill our mission. Jesus said people would know we are His followers by our love for one another, not by our worship.
I'm prompted to write about this "dirty little secret" by at least a dozen conversations I've had in the last week. One was about a church trying to find the way to have spiritual vitality in their worship again, one with our youth pastor who just got back from the Passion event (for college students) in Atlanta, one with an adult church leader who is concerned about musical style and a couple with teenagers who have the same curiosity about musical-worship style.
Before I tell you the dirty little secret, I need to share a few quick contextual statements:
The dirty little secret?
The one reason people aren't singing in worship is because they are not passionately in love with Jesus. Or at the very least, they are more in love with something than they are with Jesus.
Some days "they" is "me."
That's it. The secret is out.
We may be hungrier for what we like than Who we worship.
Consider Psalm 42:1: "As the deer longs for streams of water, so I long for You, O God." (NLT)
I'm not sure a thirsty deer would worry about the temperature of the water, a few imperfections here or there, or whether or not the water is from a creek, stream, river or lake. A thirsty deer longs for water.
Oh that we longed for God in our worship in the same way.
And remember Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
If I'm seeking old songs, new songs, familiar songs...for goodness sake, if I'm seeking songs, I'm not seeking God with all of my heart.
Singing in worship is far more a spiritual issue than a musical one. More a pastoral concern than a songful one. More about relationship than musicianship.
I'm reminded of a guy who led worship with me for a while. He got really frustrated when I shared an article about why the key we choose for a song is so important. His response was something like, "I don't care what key you pick, I'm just gonna sing because I can't help it." That dude had a passionate love for Jesus and nothing was gonna stop him from singing his love for his Savior.
When it comes to the way we worship, I wonder how many of us are so ablaze on the inside that we might appear that on fire on the outside.
The words of Jesus to the church in Ephesus are ringing in my ears: "I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first." (Rev 2:4)
The other side of that same coin maybe mis-placed love rather than missing love. And the love we have misplaced can be for just about anything.
A few possibilities...
Novelty (I like what's new.)
Tradition (I like what's old.)
Familiarity (I like what I know.)
Sounds (I like what pleases my ear.)
Music--even worship music--makes a wonderful path to Jesus but a terrible substitute for Him.
So... want to know the secret to great, engaging, dynamic, life-changing worship gatherings? It's no secret at all. It's the greatest commandment, according to Jesus. Love the Lord your God with all of who you are.
All.
That leaves no room to love novelty or tradition or familiarity or sounds. When we love Jesus with all we are, it doesn't matter if it is 20,000 college students singing "It Is Well with My Soul" accompanied by a single piano at midnight (a highlight of the Passion event this year, I've heard) or if it is "Oceans" accompanied by 7 synthesizers, 4 guitars, drums, percussion, etc. (a highlight of a worship conference I and hundreds of middle-aged worship guys attended a few months ago). When we are consumed with love for Jesus, we cannot be consumed with a love for anything else.
That's why one of my favorite and most used phrases with our worship teams is to make much of Jesus. When we make much of music, we create idols. When we make much of Jesus, we make disciples.
Before I respond to the "9 Things..." post, I need to share one more thing. None of us is innocent of what I just shared. This is a sin common to all Christ-followers. Again, I am not sitting in judgement of any person or group of people. I am, however, sitting under the judgement of God's word on my own heart, my own sinfulness, my own battle to choose songs that serve those I lead rather than songs that serve my own preferences. I sometimes get it right. I sometimes get it wrong. We're all falling short of the glory of God. It's part of what makes grace so amazing.
I would really love to hear your thoughts. Really.
Now, to share my perspective on Kenny Lamm's very helpful article "9 Reasons..." And it's just my perspective.
1. "They don't know the songs." This is so important to me. If we don't have something in us, we can't give it away. Until the song becomes part of us, it is terribly difficult to give it to God as a sacrifice of praise. I work diligently to help new songs become familiar to our congregation. We use Sunday nights and Wednesday nights to reinforce the songs we introduce on Sunday mornings.
2. "We are singing songs not suitable for congregational singing." This seems to depend on the congregation. There are some songs we do in our Sanctuary service that aren't very singable in our Cafe service, even in the same congregation. Others work the other way around. I've used some songs in other churches with great effectiveness that have been hard for other churches to sing. I certainly agree that we have to consider the complexity of rhythms and the range of the song--but each of us has to do that for our individual context. And that means we each need to deeply understand our context, the people we lead.
3. "We are singing in keys too high for the average singer." Yes. Too often the key is chosen for the leader rather than the congregation. This is an issue in many, many places. Too be honest, I sometimes miss it too. But sometimes a half step down saps the energy of the song. Sometimes a half step up means the highest notes are inaccessible. If we want to enable the most people to sing, choosing the right key for those we lead is--pardon the pun--key.
4. 'The congregation can't hear people around them singing." Oddly enough, this is also dependent on the congregation. We do a lot of a cappella singing in our services, and we love to hear the sound of the room. But many people don't want to be heard, so as soon as they hear individual voices they will sing quietly or stop singing. Again, know the folks you lead. Manage the tension of how loud the accompaniment should be week by week. Whether the pipe organ is too loud, the drums are overbearing, or you can't hear the instruments enough to allow you to sing with confidence is a--pun alert--dynamic to be managed, not a problem to be solved.
5. "We have created worship services which are spectator events, building a performance environment." Yes, we have. And no, we haven't. This is a severe exaggeration. I have been in worship venues with moving stage lights, lots of haze (aka fog/smoke), electronic sounds, and superstar-level-talent where my focus has been magnificently aimed toward Jesus. And I've been in those formats where I forgot Jesus was part of the mix. This is a matter of attitude first, artistic sensitivity second, and technology third. Remember my comments above. No amount of technology--from none to millions of dollars worth--can shut down a passionate worshiper.
6. "The congregation feels they are not expected to sing." I'm not sure how to respond to a comment about how a congregation feels. It's awfully hard to speculate on someone else's internal experience, let alone that of a large group of people. I will say this: if you focus on music, those in the congregation will pay attention to music. If you focus on Jesus, those in the congregation are far more likely to do the same.
7. "We fail to have a common body of hymnody." Yep. But this isn't going away. There are tens of thousands of songs written every year. Thousands and thousands are recorded and put in print. Local churches write their own songs. This is a huge challenge. But I think the hymnal Jesus used was pretty clear: "Sing to the Lord a new song" appears in some form or another throughout the Psalms. Again, wise and sensitive leadership is important. Let's remember, there was a time your favorite song to sing in church was brand new and had a hard time breaking into use. This one is just plain hard.
8. "Worship leaders ad lib too much." Yep. Some do. And some don't. The basics are so essential. Start the congregation well. You don't have to conduct; you can use breathing, posture, facial expression and other tools to let us know when to start. Lead the congregation well. If we don't know where we're going, your ad lib shuts us down. But if your ad lib gives us guidance and helps us connect with the text--and therefore with Jesus--help us.
9. "Worship leaders are not connecting with the congregation." Yes. This is so important. We don't lead songs, we lead people. (Click here to read a whole post on that subject.) Know the people you lead. I can't tell you how many times I've watched a person in a service sing one particular phrase and, knowing their story, I just about break down because I know just a little bit about what it means for them to sing those particular words. Listen to what the congregation sings. A phrase I've just started thinking about is when "the whole room sings." It isn't that people are singing, or that people aren't singing, it's that the whole room erupts in song. If the room isn't singing and someone had their favorite song included, I'm not sure if that serves the whole church or not. Know the people you lead. More importantly LOVE the people you lead.
I hope this helps. I know many of you who read this post--especially the ones who made it to the end--are being confronted by people in your own congregation with this insightful commentary. Please note that Kenny Lamm never talks about a preferred musical style. Nearly every observation he made could be leveled against nearly any musical style.
By the way, if you and your congregation could benefit from having someone from the outside come in and talk through these challenges, I'd love to have the chance to serve you as a worship coach.
This dirty little secret won't seem so dirty to those outside the church. In fact, they don't care, which is one of the reasons I try not to talk about worship style too much. The perception of those still far from God is a part of what makes this secret a dirty one for those of us inside the church. We're talking about things that distract us from our mission--to share the great and glorious news of grace--but sometimes we talk about it in ways that actually endanger our ability to fulfill our mission. Jesus said people would know we are His followers by our love for one another, not by our worship.
I'm prompted to write about this "dirty little secret" by at least a dozen conversations I've had in the last week. One was about a church trying to find the way to have spiritual vitality in their worship again, one with our youth pastor who just got back from the Passion event (for college students) in Atlanta, one with an adult church leader who is concerned about musical style and a couple with teenagers who have the same curiosity about musical-worship style.
Before I tell you the dirty little secret, I need to share a few quick contextual statements:
- Every week I lead the most engaged, dynamic, and spirit-freed congregation of any Baptist church I've ever seen. I am blessed beyond explanation. It hasn't always been that way for them or for me, so we all recognize this as the work of God.
- I have seen congregations go from enthused, engaged worship to a dry, weary gathering. It's sort of like watching something die.
- I have seen congregations go from dry bones to dancing soldiers. It's sort of like watching a resurrection.
- I am not sitting in judgement of any person or group of people.
- I am sitting under the judgement of God's word on my own heart, my own sinfulness, my own battle to choose songs that serve those I lead rather than songs that serve my own preferences.
The dirty little secret?
The one reason people aren't singing in worship is because they are not passionately in love with Jesus. Or at the very least, they are more in love with something than they are with Jesus.
Some days "they" is "me."
That's it. The secret is out.
We may be hungrier for what we like than Who we worship.
Consider Psalm 42:1: "As the deer longs for streams of water, so I long for You, O God." (NLT)
I'm not sure a thirsty deer would worry about the temperature of the water, a few imperfections here or there, or whether or not the water is from a creek, stream, river or lake. A thirsty deer longs for water.
Oh that we longed for God in our worship in the same way.
And remember Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
If I'm seeking old songs, new songs, familiar songs...for goodness sake, if I'm seeking songs, I'm not seeking God with all of my heart.
Singing in worship is far more a spiritual issue than a musical one. More a pastoral concern than a songful one. More about relationship than musicianship.
I'm reminded of a guy who led worship with me for a while. He got really frustrated when I shared an article about why the key we choose for a song is so important. His response was something like, "I don't care what key you pick, I'm just gonna sing because I can't help it." That dude had a passionate love for Jesus and nothing was gonna stop him from singing his love for his Savior.
When it comes to the way we worship, I wonder how many of us are so ablaze on the inside that we might appear that on fire on the outside.
The words of Jesus to the church in Ephesus are ringing in my ears: "I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first." (Rev 2:4)
The other side of that same coin maybe mis-placed love rather than missing love. And the love we have misplaced can be for just about anything.
A few possibilities...
Novelty (I like what's new.)
Tradition (I like what's old.)
Familiarity (I like what I know.)
Sounds (I like what pleases my ear.)
Music--even worship music--makes a wonderful path to Jesus but a terrible substitute for Him.
So... want to know the secret to great, engaging, dynamic, life-changing worship gatherings? It's no secret at all. It's the greatest commandment, according to Jesus. Love the Lord your God with all of who you are.
All.
That leaves no room to love novelty or tradition or familiarity or sounds. When we love Jesus with all we are, it doesn't matter if it is 20,000 college students singing "It Is Well with My Soul" accompanied by a single piano at midnight (a highlight of the Passion event this year, I've heard) or if it is "Oceans" accompanied by 7 synthesizers, 4 guitars, drums, percussion, etc. (a highlight of a worship conference I and hundreds of middle-aged worship guys attended a few months ago). When we are consumed with love for Jesus, we cannot be consumed with a love for anything else.
That's why one of my favorite and most used phrases with our worship teams is to make much of Jesus. When we make much of music, we create idols. When we make much of Jesus, we make disciples.
Before I respond to the "9 Things..." post, I need to share one more thing. None of us is innocent of what I just shared. This is a sin common to all Christ-followers. Again, I am not sitting in judgement of any person or group of people. I am, however, sitting under the judgement of God's word on my own heart, my own sinfulness, my own battle to choose songs that serve those I lead rather than songs that serve my own preferences. I sometimes get it right. I sometimes get it wrong. We're all falling short of the glory of God. It's part of what makes grace so amazing.
I would really love to hear your thoughts. Really.
Now, to share my perspective on Kenny Lamm's very helpful article "9 Reasons..." And it's just my perspective.
1. "They don't know the songs." This is so important to me. If we don't have something in us, we can't give it away. Until the song becomes part of us, it is terribly difficult to give it to God as a sacrifice of praise. I work diligently to help new songs become familiar to our congregation. We use Sunday nights and Wednesday nights to reinforce the songs we introduce on Sunday mornings.
2. "We are singing songs not suitable for congregational singing." This seems to depend on the congregation. There are some songs we do in our Sanctuary service that aren't very singable in our Cafe service, even in the same congregation. Others work the other way around. I've used some songs in other churches with great effectiveness that have been hard for other churches to sing. I certainly agree that we have to consider the complexity of rhythms and the range of the song--but each of us has to do that for our individual context. And that means we each need to deeply understand our context, the people we lead.
3. "We are singing in keys too high for the average singer." Yes. Too often the key is chosen for the leader rather than the congregation. This is an issue in many, many places. Too be honest, I sometimes miss it too. But sometimes a half step down saps the energy of the song. Sometimes a half step up means the highest notes are inaccessible. If we want to enable the most people to sing, choosing the right key for those we lead is--pardon the pun--key.
4. 'The congregation can't hear people around them singing." Oddly enough, this is also dependent on the congregation. We do a lot of a cappella singing in our services, and we love to hear the sound of the room. But many people don't want to be heard, so as soon as they hear individual voices they will sing quietly or stop singing. Again, know the folks you lead. Manage the tension of how loud the accompaniment should be week by week. Whether the pipe organ is too loud, the drums are overbearing, or you can't hear the instruments enough to allow you to sing with confidence is a--pun alert--dynamic to be managed, not a problem to be solved.
5. "We have created worship services which are spectator events, building a performance environment." Yes, we have. And no, we haven't. This is a severe exaggeration. I have been in worship venues with moving stage lights, lots of haze (aka fog/smoke), electronic sounds, and superstar-level-talent where my focus has been magnificently aimed toward Jesus. And I've been in those formats where I forgot Jesus was part of the mix. This is a matter of attitude first, artistic sensitivity second, and technology third. Remember my comments above. No amount of technology--from none to millions of dollars worth--can shut down a passionate worshiper.
6. "The congregation feels they are not expected to sing." I'm not sure how to respond to a comment about how a congregation feels. It's awfully hard to speculate on someone else's internal experience, let alone that of a large group of people. I will say this: if you focus on music, those in the congregation will pay attention to music. If you focus on Jesus, those in the congregation are far more likely to do the same.
7. "We fail to have a common body of hymnody." Yep. But this isn't going away. There are tens of thousands of songs written every year. Thousands and thousands are recorded and put in print. Local churches write their own songs. This is a huge challenge. But I think the hymnal Jesus used was pretty clear: "Sing to the Lord a new song" appears in some form or another throughout the Psalms. Again, wise and sensitive leadership is important. Let's remember, there was a time your favorite song to sing in church was brand new and had a hard time breaking into use. This one is just plain hard.
8. "Worship leaders ad lib too much." Yep. Some do. And some don't. The basics are so essential. Start the congregation well. You don't have to conduct; you can use breathing, posture, facial expression and other tools to let us know when to start. Lead the congregation well. If we don't know where we're going, your ad lib shuts us down. But if your ad lib gives us guidance and helps us connect with the text--and therefore with Jesus--help us.
9. "Worship leaders are not connecting with the congregation." Yes. This is so important. We don't lead songs, we lead people. (Click here to read a whole post on that subject.) Know the people you lead. I can't tell you how many times I've watched a person in a service sing one particular phrase and, knowing their story, I just about break down because I know just a little bit about what it means for them to sing those particular words. Listen to what the congregation sings. A phrase I've just started thinking about is when "the whole room sings." It isn't that people are singing, or that people aren't singing, it's that the whole room erupts in song. If the room isn't singing and someone had their favorite song included, I'm not sure if that serves the whole church or not. Know the people you lead. More importantly LOVE the people you lead.
I hope this helps. I know many of you who read this post--especially the ones who made it to the end--are being confronted by people in your own congregation with this insightful commentary. Please note that Kenny Lamm never talks about a preferred musical style. Nearly every observation he made could be leveled against nearly any musical style.
By the way, if you and your congregation could benefit from having someone from the outside come in and talk through these challenges, I'd love to have the chance to serve you as a worship coach.
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